The moment I saw Tynette's hair I was so inspired and immediately begged her to do a post for you guys. Hope you Enjoy!
Natural Beginnings
Growing up, I've always been natural. My mother refused to put a perm (relaxer) on my hair which would really upset me from time to time. I never knew too much about perms when I was younger, all I knew was that they would allow me to wear my own hair out like the girls I would watch on television. Because my hair was so thick and long, my mom kept it in either single braids or cornrows. About once a year we would go through the 3-day process of straightening it with a hot comb, but with this southern humidity I'd be lucky if my hair would behave for longer than an hour.
The summer I turned ten (2000), I was still begging for a perm so my mom took me to meet her friend, Ms. Gwen who specialized solely in natural hair. During my first visit Ms. Gwen had a long talk with me about how perms weren't healthy and the damage they could cause. Afterwards she gave me a tape to watch about women who had suffered irreversible damage because of the chemical relaxer. Ever since, all talk of getting a perm ceased from my lips. Throughout that summer my mom let Ms. Gwen do my natural hairstyles which included two strand twist, braid outs, twist outs, and blow outs. I loved that I was able to wear my hair out naturally beyond the single braids or cornrows. I can say I grew to love my hair that summer.
It wasn't just a hairstyle, but a lifestyle
Near the end of summer 2000, Ms. Gwen introduced my mom and I to this new technique of locking, sisterlocks. My mom and I both watched the orientation video which featured Dr. Cornwell walking around town with these beautiful long gorgeous locks! I instantly fell in love, and began begging for sisterlocks. My mom had hers installed in late August which made me want them even more. Since I was only ten years old, my mom didn't think I knew what I was getting into. She thought I didn't comprehend that it wasn't just a hairstyle, but a lifestyle. She kept saying, "Tynette, if you get these you just can't take them out if you don't want them anymore," but I knew exactly what I would be getting into.
By that November, my mom had made a deal with me. If I could explain to her in an essay why I wanted sisterlocks, she would let me get them for Christmas. By early December I had written my essay and it must've been pretty convincing because December 18, 2000 was the day I started getting my sisterlocks installed. Because of the thickness, length, and size of the locks, my installation was completed within a week on Christmas Eve. I am 21 years old and I've had my sisterlocks for 12 years. I absolutely believe that this was the best choice I could've made when it comes to my hair.
Products and Regime
My favorite products to use are the Black Earth products by Taliah Waajid. I am a Taliah Waajid junkie! They soften and moisture my locks very well. I try to wash my hair once a week using Taliah's Total Body Black Earth Shampoo. After washing and rinsing twice, I then use Taliah's Enhancing Herbal Conditioner and apply it thoroughly while my hair is still soaking wet. Next I'll put a shower cap on and sit under my hair dryer and deep condition my locks for about 30 minutes. Once that is done, I'll apply the African Healing Oyl to my scalp and let the rest of my hair dry while under the dryer (without the shower cap).
Styling
If I want to style my hair, I'll use Taliah's Crinkles & Curls or Loc It Up and either braid my hair for crinkles, or bantu knot my hair for curls or waves. The Crinkles & Curls and Loc It Up are light and hold my hairstyle longer. Throughout the week, I use Taliah's Protective Bodifier or just some coconut oil to keep my hair moisturized and shiny.
Hair Color
I color my hair with Naturtint, a natural hair dye that can be found at Whole Foods and Amazon.com. My color is the blondest, 10N. I refresh my color about 2-3 times a year. I love it when my hair is black at the roots and gets lighter as it goes down, but I also love when my hair is freshly dyed and my baby hairs are blonde.
Skin Care
Body wise, I stick to my good ol' faithful Palmer's Cocoa Butter and vanilla scented body splash.
Natural and healthy lifestyle Advocacy
Ever
since I can remember, my mom has always taught me to be an advocate of a
natural and healthy lifestyle. I'm not one to wear make up, but I will
throw on some masscara, eyeliner and lipstick for a night out. I love
fruits and veggies, my favorites being mangos, pineapples, peaches,
strawberries, raspberries, blueberries, blackberries, spinach, cabbage,
cucumbers, carrots, bell peppers, and mushrooms. I cook most of my meals
and every once and in awhile I do like to indulge in sweets! Desserts
are my favorite, especially anything that contains chocolate, caramel,
custards, and so on.
I have been dancing and playing the violin since I
was five, I find those things to be very therapeutic along with
cooking and writing.
Please show Tynette some love by visiting her amazing fashion and food blog http://www.caramelalamode.com/ You can catch tons of inspirational shots of her long golden locs, over 60 pages of hair, food and fashion eye candy.
Please show Tynette some love by visiting her amazing fashion and food blog http://www.caramelalamode.com/ You can catch tons of inspirational shots of her long golden locs, over 60 pages of hair, food and fashion eye candy.
Yaaaay love this girls blog great post =D
ReplyDeleteGreat Post! Nice to know the story behind the beautiful pictures.
ReplyDeletei love this girls style and locks! I def have lock envy! lol I cant wait till my locks gets that long.
ReplyDeletePeople use my hair as inspiration.(I'm just natural) but she is a force. officially my loc inspiration.
ReplyDeleteJust happened to find your site and see this post; so glad I did! I've been sisterlocked since 2007 and I Love it!
ReplyDeleteMy hair is thick and at my bra line. Co workers and some family members love to ask "how long are you going to let it grow; is it heavy; I wonder how long it would be if you took it down" as if the ultimate goal is still to straighten it.
I used to try to explain that its not a temporary hairstyle and that they are not coming down any time soon and that I want to see how long it grows and they would look at me with disdain and confusion mixed with a bit of envy that they are not brave enough to try something different.
Seeing your pics lets me know I am not alone! Your hair is long, thick healthy and beautiful. Thanks for the inspiration/motivation!
I am so happy yall were able to grab so much inspiration from her story!
ReplyDeleteTynette for President! That girl is the total package, Black Girls Rock! :0))
ReplyDeletewhat a great post and sophia i'm loving your website!
ReplyDeleteHer hair is absolutely gorgeous.
ReplyDeleteDo not mind my perm in my picture. That was me a year ago. I am all natural now and currently contemplating sister locks. Mom said "yay" and dad said "naaa" At this point in my life I do not have favorites, however, I tend to listen to my Dad thinking he have all the right answers. Still thinking. hope my decision wont end up with me and my Dad being in a malice of some sort.
ReplyDeleteOMG your story is so identical to my own! I never had a perm/relaxer and started my locs in 2000 at 11 and at 23 i'm still rocking them. My godmom had traditional locs and godsister had sisterlocs so they really inspired me.
ReplyDeleteIt would be slightly frustrating to try to explain the difference b/t sisterlocs/"dreads", etc and at one point I even questioned my decision, but I love my hair and I'm thankful I didn't chicken out, lol.
Although i've always had a person to retighten my locs, she wasn' the best in hair care education and I believe i've suffered a lot from that. I've always struggled with finding good products to use, so you don't know HOW EXCITED i am to have stumbled onto this blog and post. I've always been scared to color my hair in fear or screwing up, damaging (i kno my locs are super mature and i've never had a major issue with breakage, but the idea of them falling out still scare me lol). So once again thanks!
P.S. I've been playing the violin since I was 8 ;-)
Also when you color, do you use more than one box since you have thick hair?
ReplyDeleteI would love to know where she got her locs installed. Does anyone know?
ReplyDeleteI love your hair style and color. Really nice!
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